“If I were a
psychoanalyzer, I might conclude that I was trying to,
not compete with
my father, but do
something on my own.” George W Bush
Son Bush's policies and actions are so often so diametrically different from his father's, he is not just fixing his father's mistakes, but unconsciously undoing his father's legacy as well.
Preparing
psychological profiles of
leaders is not unusual. Sigmund Freud
participated in one of the earliest of President Woodrow Wilson, and
the 2 profiles of Adolph Hitler made during World War II by the OSS
were helpful enough that the CIA established the Center for the
Analysis of Personality and Political Behavior. The profiles this
group made of Anwar Sadat and Menachem Begin played an important role
in Jimmy Carter's handling of the Camp David negotiations in 1978,
and similar profiles continue to be made and used. One historian
(James David Barber in his book Presidential Character) has
attempted an
interesting broad psychological review of modern presidents in an
effort to identify profiles and traits that lead to successful terms in
office. The mainstream media though avoids trying to
psychoanalyze presidents, and for good reasons; and certainly
Father and Son Bush, and indeed the entire Bush clan reject any attempt
to put them on the couch as “psychobabble.”
However, the
evidence that many of Son Bush’s
decisions are to some significant degree the result of his relationship
with his family, and particularly with his father, are so compelling,
and the consequences so profound, that the question must at least be raised and
explored. And these many Webpages contain a wealth
of information can be summarized as follows:
Both George Herbert Walker Bush ("Father Bush")
and George Walker Bush ("Son Bush") had fathers who achieved a high degree of success in
multiple fields, with very imposing presences and very imposing resumes; both
idolized their fathers who
were remote or absent during much of their childhood; both were raised
by
very strong mothers in
matriarchal families; both used family connections to advance their
business careers; both
followed the same path to Andover, Yale,
military service and flying, the oil fields of Texas, and politics. But
in many ways their lives have been very different beyond the
fact that Son Bush didn't
come close to matching his father's success and accomplishments until he
changed his life at 40 years old.
For Example, Father Bush grew up in the privileged and high society of
Greenwich Connecticut while Son Bush grew up in Midland, Texas; Father
Bush went to Greenwich Day School while Son Bush went to Midland public
schools (at least through the 7th grade); and although Father
Bush was not the first born son and thus did not get his father's
name like his older brother Prescott Jr. , Father Bush
became the focus of his father's larger expectations -- and
indeed his father had waived his investment firm's anti-nepotism rule so
George
could join
it. Father Bush was also his mother's favorite in part because of his
athletic ability and also because he was named for her father
(George Herbert Walker). On the other hand, Son Bush was the Black
Sheep of the family while second son Jeb was the clear parental favorite who was
expected to go far in business and politics.
Also while Prescott Bush was, except for singing sessions with his children, imposing and remote, Father Bush, while also absent most of
the time, was far warmer and aware of the pressures on his children to
succeed. And while both Doro and Barbara adored their husbands,
and both women were exceptionally strong physically and mentally, Doro also
had a softer side than Barbara. For example, a story has Father Bush complaining his tennis game was "off" and Doro
replying that he “didn't have a game....” But this exchange took place
when George was 8 years old and just learning to play, and she said he
didn't have a game yet
because he was just learning and he needed to
practice more. On the other hand when Barbara watched Son Bush run
in his first marathon in 1993 when he was 46 years old, while Father
Bush yelled encouragement, Barbara shouted that he should run faster
“because some elderly women were ahead of him....” Funny -- and
probably true, but still cutting rather than focusing on the
accomplishment of running a marathon after only 2 months of
training. And while George remembered that Doro always had time
for each of the kids, and would stay to play tennis or whatever no
matter what the time, Barbara remembers “endless hours” with
the kids, and others remember that Barbara sometimes left her children
with
others, even for extended times, and that for her Father Bush
always
came first.
These many related Web pages suggest the
following themes as the focus of further research and analysis:
1.
Barbara Bush adored her husband, and passed that on to her son who likewise adored and idealized his often absent father. “I don't
know about him but I
sure love him. I think he's the greatest
man I ever knew. I wake up in the morning and look over at that
funny old face and say, I’m the luckiest woman in the world.”
(Barbara Bush to Larry King) Likewise Son Bush has said:
“I
don’t like it when people criticize my dad. That’s because I love
him, I love him more than anything.” And:
“I’d
run through a
brick wall for my dad.”
2. When
his father stayed only 2 hours at his Yale graduation Son Bush
told friends that his father
“doesn’t have a normal life. I don’t have
a normal father.” Certainly Father Bush was absent during
extended
periods of Son Bush’s childhood and most often he was not there to
attend school sports or events, nor even home much to catch ball in the
evenings. Some psychologists say an idealized father who is absent
is a powerful factor. Many who knew Son Bush at every stage of
his life, including Bob Bullock when Son Bush was Governor of Texas,
thought that Son Bush didn’t have access to his father when he was
growing up and wished he had.
3.
At some point Son Bush became aware of his father’s weaknesses
as well as his strengths, and although there remained strong feelings
between them, Son Bush’s competition with his father became more real
and pronounced as he finally realized success with the Texas Rangers,
as Governor of Texas, and finally as President. Part of this new
appraisal was the result of comparing his father with Ronald Reagan,
and identifying
more with Reagan’s Western persona than his father’s patrician
Greenwich air; and more with Reagan’s political philosophy and
steadfastness to his principles than his father’s (and grandfather’s)
more liberal views and lack of "the vision thing." Surely it hurt Son Bush deeply when Father Bush's caution and lack of ideological foundations led to stories during the 1988 election about Father Bush's "wimp factor." And surely Son Bush knew that after Iraq invaded Kuwait, Father Bush said that the United States was not even "discussing intervention," but when British prime minister Margaret Thatcher insisted that Saddam's actions had to be challenged saying "Don't go wobbly on me George;" an advisor later said Thatcher had preformed "a successful backbone transplant." Son Bush would make sure was different and would never go "wobbly" or waver from his firmly held beliefs. And finally, part of that re-appraisal involved realizing that his father had some human
frailties as well.
4.
The death of George and
Barbara's second
born, a daughter called Robin,
deeply affected all of them. Robin was diagnosed
with leukemia when
Son Bush was 6 and Robin was 4 years old, and while Son Bush was told
his sister was ill, he was left in Texas for 6 months while his parents
accompanied Robin back East for treatment. And when his
parents returned Son Bush only learned of his sister’s death when he
ran to the car and didn’t see his sister in the back seat. At six years
old Son Bush had no opportunity to express grief since he had to care
for his mother who was so severely depressed her hair turned prematurely gray, and Barbara had to come
and get Son Bush when he suffered nightmares during his first
“sleep-over” at a friends house after Robin’s death. Son Bush
remembers the event as follows: “Minutes
before
I had a little sister,
and now I didn’t. Forty-six years later those moments remain the
starkest memory of my childhood, a sharp pain in the midst of an
otherwise happy blur.”
And:
“I
learned in a harsh way at
a very
early age never to take life for granted.” And:
“You think your
life is so good and everything is perfect, and then something like this
happens and nothing is the same.” He repeatedly asked his
parents
why they hadn’t told him how sick his sister was, and Barbara just
replied that it “wouldn’t have made any difference....” To the
progression of the disease, but perhaps not to Son Bush, and while
Barbara later wondered if not telling him was wrong, there were
no
easy answers. In any event a large picture of Robin was
prominently displayed in their home, and Barbara kept having children
until after 3 more boys they finally had another daughter who was named
Dorothy after Father Bush’s mother.
This first brush
with death affected Son Bush in many ways. For example his
brother Marvin believed it made Son Bush seize
“opportunities as they came
without fretting about what tomorrow would
bring.” This risk taking and view of death as something
that
can’t be controlled may have also reduced any qualms
about the death penalty since he oversaw far more executions (152)
than any modern governor,
cut the Governor's review time from 30 to 15 minutes for each case, and
expressed total confidence that all who were executed on his watch were
guilty even though new DNA testing has revealed that a surprising number of
death row inmates are in fact innocent -- and although other governors
expressed concern, and some even halted executions. Of course
this also might play into the difficult decision to send troops
into harms way.
5. A very important factor is that
only 22 years separate Father Bush from Son Bush. For example, Father Bush was still a real presence at Andover and was remembered by all as one of Andover's finest graduates with 23 distinctions when Son Bush entered 19 years later; and while the timeframe was slightly longer at Yale,
nevertheless many remembered Father Bush’s exceptional athletic and
good academic record; and again when Son Bush followed his
father’s footsteps into the Texas oil fields, and in his first run for
Congress, the comparison was inevitable and not always kind. Surely
it’s hard enough to follow in a very accomplished and successful
parent’s footsteps, but when those footsteps are still warm, the
path
is much harder!
6.
Not only was there a short time frame between Father Bush’s and Son
Bush’s paths, Father Bush’s positions on issues and in the Republican party isolated his son
to some extent at more liberal Andover and Yale, and certainly at Harvard Business
School when his father as Republican National Chairman, was daily defending
Nixon. This and Son Bush's Texas upbringing inevitably led to an anti-intellectual, anti-East
Coast bias, and a defiant tobacco chewing, leather flight
training jacket
persona.
7.
Son Bush was mistaken for his
father for most of his life, and
known as "Georgie," “Little
George” and then "Junior"
until his father
lost
in 1992. When he ran for Congress for the first time at the age
of 32
he repeatedly had to remind voters that he was running “as me” and not
his father, and reportedly even pulled out his birth certificate at some speeches to
prove that his middle name was different than his father’s.
Occasionally newspapers would run a picture of his father in place of
his; and even when he began his race for the presidency polls showed
that 40% of the people still confused him with his father.
"Being mistaken for your father is no joke when you are trying to
establish your own identity," and it had to have bothered Son Bush.
8.
But more
importantly until he was over 40 years old, Son Bush was acutely aware
that he was almost entirely
dependent on his father's help, money, and
name, and had accomplished little on his own. Indeed, it was not until he was elected President that he finally felt out of his father's shadow and "could dispel criticism that he could accomplish only what his father helped him to." And while he used one of his father's old desks as Governor, when he became President that desk was sent to storage and he used JFK's old desk.
9. Primogenitor. Father Bush
learned from
his older brother Prescott Jr. about
the extra burden inevitably placed on
the first born son and thus carefully made sure W was not technically a
"Junior." And interestingly Father Bush's experience as a second born,
non-Jr., favorite son was to some extent replicated in Jeb who said: "There might be
more to it for him [Son Bush] than
the rest of us because he is the oldest and it is his namesake, and he
more directly followed my dad’s path. If he was openly honest
about it, he might say that it had some effect, that it might define
him in some way. I learned a while back, my estimation of my
father is so powerful that if I felt like I had to follow his footsteps
and follow a path that he has set for me, I would fail. I came to
grips with that a while back. A lot of people who have fathers
like this, or moms, who have lived such extraordinary lives, feel a
sense that they have failed because they haven’t reached the same level
of just being a human being as their predecessor – and it creates all
sorts of pathologies."
10.
From the time he entered Andover Son Bush quickly learned that an effective and entirely natural way to responded to all these primogenitor pressures was to lower expectations. And he continued this tactic in the political arena as Ann Richards, John McCain, Al Gore, John Kerry and others discovered to their considerable chagrin. "It didn't take George W. long to realize that he would not be able to measure up to the man who's name he carried. So it was on the snowy campus at Andover that W. developed his first mechanism to blunt the pressures and divert them in a different direction. 'George really saw the the value of lowering expectations,' said Elsie Walker Kilbourne, 'He became a master at it. The whole family clown thing was as much about lowering expectations so he wouldn't disappoint than anything.'"
11. Jeb, not GW, was
the favored son. In addition to facing the heavy first-son
burden, W also faced enormous
competition with his brother Jeb, who, like his father, after graduating Phi Beta Kappa from college in 3 years (from the University of Texas not Yale) and achieving financial success in business, became the favorite son as
Son Bush became the "black sheep"
of the family. Indeed, in 1972 Son Bush had enough problems with at least alcohol that Father Bush asked a friend to give him a job with
a campaign in Alabama to get him out of Houston. These
problems may well have been an unconscious attempt to screw up enough to relieve these intense primogenitor and sibling
pressures. But more, Jeb had always been interested in politics and policies and at one point even threatened to resist the draft. And unlike his father and
older brother, Jeb is very articulate and, as his mother pointedly said, “can
speak beautifully without any notes.”
As
the political star of the family, Jeb
was suppose to have won his run for governor of Florida against Lawton Childs
in 1994, the same year W was suppose to lose his race against popular incumbent Texas Governor Ann Richards. And as
Son Bush
poignantly noted,
after the returns were in his parents seemed far more concerned and upset that Jeb lost than happy that he won.
12.
Mother & Son. While
most commentators focus on the similarities and
differences between Father Bush and Son Bush, as Son Bush says, he has
his father’s eyes and his mother’s mouth -- and temperament -- and
certainly he is more like his
mother than his father in many
ways. Many historians have noted how so many U.S. presidents have
had a very close relationship with their mothers. Certainly
Father Bush was very close to his mother Doro. And since Father
Bush was
away so much, Son Bush by default had a close relationship with his
mother.
For example, after Robin's death Barbara said she realized she had to
get over her grief when she heard young W tell
a friend he
couldn't play because he had to look after his mother. But the
relationship between Barbara and W was different and more
complex, e.g. while Father
Bush called his mother almost every
day, Son Bush went
almost a year without speaking to his mother in
the 1980's when they were feuding about
his behavior. Moreover, Barbara’s
"matronly" public persona is deceiving. For example, while her comments are often seen refreshing for a
politician’s
wife (most famously characterizing vice-presidential candidate
Geraldine Ferraro "as a word that rhymes with 'rich'"), that bluntness
extends to all, including her family. Barbara admits to “screaming and carrying on,” and Son Bush said: “I’ve been reprimanded
by Barbara Bush as a child and I’ve been reprimanded as an adult.
And in both circumstances, it’s not very fun.”
Her style is strong
rather than warm, sarcastic rather than humorous. She has
experienced times of severe depression, notably after Robin died and
later in
1976
when the children were grown and Father Bush was in Washington D.C. or traveling, sometimes
accompanied by a long-term female assistant. In 1989 when Son
Bush was seriously considering running for Texas governor, his mother
first privately told him not to, and then when he continued, went
public saying he should work for the Texas Rangers baseball team before
running for
governor. Son Bush angrily responded: “Thank
you very much.
You’ve been giving me advice for 42 years, most of which I haven’t
taken.” And then when he ran in 1994, his mother told him
he
couldn’t beat the very popular Ann Richards. But above all, the
children knew, as Son Bush said, that Barbara
“put
her relationship
with her husband above her relationship with us.”
And finally Bar
differs from the moneyed old guard Eastern establishment that hates publicity
and would never write a book like Recollections
in which she offers a laundry list of vacations,
dinners, and guests (and which seems contrary to Doro’s admonition to
be discreet, never brag, and keep a low profile -- although of course most of the moneyed old guard didn't lead as interesting a life or have the same accomplishments). And while the
Bushes didn’t have the big money of the Kennedys or the old money of
the Roosevelts, having two presidents moved them beyond both. (And “41"
& “43" are interesting terms, meant to draw attention to the fact
that in the history of our nation there have only been 43 presidents
and the Bushes have two of them.)
13.
Another
Barbara trait is to be extremely
protective of her family members; as
she told Larry King, people can criticize her, but if they criticize
her husband or her children or her in-laws,
"they're dead." And that
protectiveness extends to all of her children and not just Son Bush and Jeb, and usually to her in-laws as well. Surely a strong
maternal instinct is evident when she said she felt people
who asked Son Bush if he had ever
used cocaine were misguided because "who cares what happened 20 years
ago," and dismissed his arrest for drunk driving as minor
because he was stopped for "driving
too
slowly!"
14.
Some have questioned if Son Bush has a learning disability or an attention
deficit-hyperactivity problem. Neither were recognized
when he was growing up
-- rather some kids were
just physically over-active and intellectually slow or difficult, and since any special help was non-existent, if the disability was severe he could not have survived Andover, Yale, or Harvard. Son Bush’s brother Neil was later diagnosed
with dyslexia and it is known to run in families. In any event, Son Bush appears to be an active and audio learner
preferring oral briefings to
briefing books; he said he doesn’t like “long books (although insiders say he reads a lot),” and policy papers
are usually limited to no more than three pages -- and sometimes with key phrases
highlighted (although again this may well be because of the subject matter --even a policy wonk like Nixon said he "didn't give a shit about the Lira" -- and note that another expert has hypothesized that W's tendency to jumble and make
up words is evidence of an auditory problem, not a reading problem.)
Father
Bush’s
hyperactivity is well known, and for example both Father and
Son Bush play “speed golf” that is based not just on the score but the
number of holes they can play in a set time (for example playing 18 holes in 70 minutes!) Son Bush often has
trouble
sitting still and has been known to be visibly uncomfortable and even
make faces in situations he cannot control -- and this might explain
some of his problems in the first debate with John Kerry.
Son Bush’s working schedule often includes exceptionally short 5 minute
meetings; every attempt is made to limit 60-90 minute policy briefing
to no more than twice a week; and his schedule ALWAYS provides ample
time for rest and exercise.
However, while
these types of problems may provide
insight to Son Bush’s mind and decisions, they don’t have
anything to do with intelligence. Indeed by
all accounts Son Bush has "enough intelligence to do the job," and by
all accounts he has a remarkable memory at least for names and
baseball statistics; he graduated from three of our country's most
elite schools; and he has a good grasp of details in areas like
education that he has carefully studied. And
of course he has a considerable amount of "emotional intelligence,"
most
people learn ways to compensate for reading or learning
problems, and indeed most
accomplished people are hyperactive in some ways.
15.
Several experts have suggested Son Bush suffers from a
“dry drunk” syndrome
that
focuses on punctuality and keeping one's environment as predictable and
manageable as possible. In this interpretation, an obsession
with
punctuality is not about politeness but rather a desire to keep the
environment under control because losing control is equated
with falling off the wagon. In any event since the long term
success rate for problem drinkers is very low unless undertaken with a
program like AA, the fact that he has done so apparently without
outside aid or intervention shows his enormous iron will and
self-discipline.
16.
While Son Bush
poses as a "regular guy" and did some
rural-retail campaigning especially early in his career, like his other
siblings, he has led a trust-fund
life of great privilege and
advantage that
affords little contact with poor working people. Even
early in their marriage Barbara had considerable domestic help
(which was usual for the time), and since 1992 she has regularly taken
elaborate and extended
trips with various family members around the world as well as a
chartering a yacht large enough to accommodate their entire family each
summer for a cruise in the Mediterranean. As Barbara noted: "Politics has been very good to this
family..." in money as well as status.
17.
Political power is particularly
addicting, and as Grandfather Bush’s
poignant statement shows, one need not be insecure to find it
so. Part of the appeal is the opportunity to do good and make a
difference. But part also is the amazing power, perks and celebrity
status
involved, and of course if you are always accompanied by more
firepower than in
a small country’s army, you must be important... and currently the US
President is at the apex of the world’s power pyramid. Anyone who has
not been close to this type of power is hard pressed to understand how
even the most minor interactions are altered, from the powerful and
articulate who, as Jimmy
Carter observed, "suddenly have
cotton in their mouths when entering the
Oval Office," to the “either you work the room
or the room works you...” i.e. the way strangers try to approach
powerful people and kiss up to them. Surely one needs an
exceptionally good BS meter just to survive, and thus old friends are
usually the best friends.
18. As should be expected from a former fraternity president, Son Bush can be very
charming and considerate,
and often relies more on that charm than any substantive knowledge or debating skills. Indeed
many even on the left agree with Molly Ivins, who has known W since school days and says she actually
likes him, but just feels he
is a terrible
president. Along with that charm is W’s belief that he
has a great BS meter and can “read” people. And
while unfortunately W can be slow to realize that meter
is fallible, part of that “reading” is a healthy
disdain for the
obsequiousness of so many in “power Washington.” An
example of both of these traits is Paul O’Neill’s account
of how W took
time to talk to his long time secretary and make sure she had a tour of the Oval
Office, something no other president or high ranking official had
ever done... or probably even thought of doing.
19. There is ample evidence of his strong will. But more, most who know him also remark about his stubbornness... which can be a virtue in the face of overwhelming odds. However, people can also be stubborn when they are too proud to back down, i.e. a lack of self-esteem could cause them to continue to hold a position even when they know they are wrong because it is too hard to accept that they may be wrong.
20. Faith. Some have joked that it is logical for GW to believe he
became president as part of some divine plan because he surely knows he
didn’t get there through hard work or ability! But unfortunately
there is more truth than humor there, and indeed one explanation for W’s
ignoring the tenuousness of his first election and the fact that over
500,000
more people voted for his opponent and barging ahead with his agenda
was that some "unseen hand" had picked him -- and his agenda -- and this
belief was only reinforced, and gave him great comfort, after
nine-eleven.
"W had great interpersonal intelligence; he could understand other people, what motivated them, what they wanted, and how to persuade them. But he lacked self-understanding. He didn't really understand himself because, as with all the Bushes, introspection was not encouraged." (A relative quoted in Schweitzer's The Bushes)
Also See the Nine Fundamental Problems with W's Decision Making Process
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